Those three words can change your life and way of thinking. I’ve said it before, many times. It’s life. We live, learn and hopefully gain wisdom from our mistakes and life lessons.
Two days of labor and no epidural, I swore I wasn’t having any more children. I remember saying that, yep sure did. I thought, how and why do women have more than one or two children? If I close my eyes and click three times, I can feel those pains again! Four years later I had my second and last child. I was 38 years old and chances were pretty good I wasn’t doing that again.
After my last divorce I said, I’ll never marry again. Ok I did it again and believe me when I say we are taking it one day at a time, some days good and some not so good. I’m 51 and I’m still learning about relationships, commitment, what love really means.
Most of the time when we say “never again” it’s after we’ve done something that we either don’t want to do again and was a major challenge. At times we say it after failure, and if that’s the reason we should keep on pushing until something happens. When working towards your goals and dreams don’t allow the word “never” to stop you. Be willing to try and do things that will help you reach your goals.
Reach out to people that are working towards the same goals or have achieved the greatness you are working towards. Admit you need help and network, in real life and online, an awesome tool. Google hangouts seem to be very popular these days, one way to network online. Attend local events that you are interested in. I try to attend when I can, mostly blogging get togethers. A support system, belief in yourself and perseverance will help you never say never…..again.