Happy Birthday Honey!

Today is my husband’s birthday.  He is 57 years old and looks wonderful.  I cooked a ribeye dinner for him Sunday, while he watched MSNBC and football in the man cave.  I bought him a London Fog jacket and a pair of Levi’s, and he loved it.  It doesn’t take much to make this man happy, all it takes is the simple things in life.  Have a wonderful day love and we’ll celebrate more over the weekend.  Hopefully go listen to a little music and have an adult beverage!  MUAH!!!

 

 

I’m making a cake for him today….he’ll love that.

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Monday Again?

 

 

Yesterday was Veterans Day, the hubs celebrated quietly at home as usual.  We went to brunch, then of course found out if we had just waited for lunch he could have gotten a free lunch/dinner from Applebee’s.  We went to IHOP, and it was ok.  I truly appreciate the service and time that veterans put in to keep us safe and serve our country.  They sacrifice for us and I want to make sure we celebrate them at all times.  My husband will let anyone know that he gave 34 years to the United States Army, and I don’t blame him.  My dad was in the Navy for 20 years, and I have a nephew that’s a Marine who is currently serving his country.      He’s off today and doing his usual run to Home Depot/Lowes.  He went to get a light bulb for the hood over the stove and salt (it was 23 degrees here this morning).  I knew it, he came back telling me about a blower on sale for $69, which isn’t bad because we have three trees worth of leaves in our yard!  So he’s off to spend more money at one of his favorite stores, and I bet he will also make a visit to Sam’s Club.  I’ll just hold on until he gets back, *shakes head*.  

My husband just upgraded to the iPhone 5, I really like it.  Guess who’s ready for an upgrade?  Yep, it’s me…probably won’t upgrade until spring though.  The girls have Verizon service and they have the iPhone 4 for free!  We have to decide if we want to do that, it will make our bill go up about $10 a month because they will need the data plan for a smart phone.  We were in Verizon this weekend and found out that we should have been getting a 20% discount because my husband works for USPS.  That. Will. Work.  It may come out to be the same, we’ll see.  I know I said I wasn’t buying iPhones for them, but they both want new iPods and they need new phones and they are free.  They will definitely get Otter Boxes for them, that’s the only one we use since we’ve had iPhones.   They will both get a $50 iTunes gift card, some clothes, shoes or boots and one special item they want and it’s a wrap for them.   My youngest wants an archery set or a puppy…that girl.

My oldest daughter will be in the high school production of “Beauty and the Beast” this week, finally.  They have been working very hard every evening after school, and they were up there for over 7 hours yesterday.  She’s a villager, can’t wait to see her performance.  She has found her calling, she loves acting and singing and is pretty good at it too.  I plan to encourage her to always stay active with a local theater, it will be good for her.  They had to sell adds for the program, and I purchased one advertising my blog, hoping it will bring some local readers to my blog.  It was $50 and I didn’t mind, we do things like this for our children.  I’ll have a review and pictures later this week.   

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July Boost!

Let’s get this month long party started!  The concert was fabulous, Will Downing was amazing as I knew he would be.  He has such a silky, sultry, succulent voice, I could listen to him sing for hours.  We had pretty good seats, in the orchestra section on the last row.  I got some good pictures of him as well as a local saxophonist named Tim Cunningham who we just love as well.   

 

 

I was out yesterday afternoon doing a little shopping just to see if I could find something to go with those shoes I purchased.  I also went to Sam’s Club to stock up on water and beverages because it’s so hot here in St Louis.  My husband worked Saturday and I knew he was gonna be exhausted from being in the heat all day.  I asked him when I went to get tickets was he sure he would feel like going after working?  He said and I quote, “I’ll be tired, but I want to see Will Downing.  I’ve never seen him in concert before”.  Ok, no problem.  He said he would take a quick nap before the concert.  We get home, he showers first so he can lay down.  I am fooling around with my new dress I purchased and getting things in order.  I used to be a woman that you could depend on being on time no matter what.  Lately, that hasn’t been the case.  I don’t know if it’s because I’m no longer a part of the brick and mortar community of workers or what it is, but I’m just not as timely as I used to be.  I look up and it’s 6:30, the door opens at 7:00 and my husband hates being late.  I go and get the small fan and aim it right at me because I know the rush is on now, and I had about 5 different personal summers while I was getting ready.  

 

 

Ok, everything is together I go and give the girls the “you know what to do when we leave the house” speech and head out the door.  It’s 105 and I have on a black dress, I forgot to get a bottle of water, put on cologne and forgot my wrap for my arms because you know those venues can be cold.  I get in the truck and we get started, he’s irritated but calm at this point.  I mention that I forgot water, cologne and wrap.  He keeps driving.  So I mention it again.  He turns around, goes back and I felt the heat coming from his forehead for being irritated with me.  I run in the house, take care of my business and we are on our way again.  I mention to him that I don’t have any cash, and that’s when the snapping started.  I’m trying not to ruin the evening, just ignore his remarks.  We are about 3 minutes from the venue and I ask, do we need money for parking?  Well needless to say, he whipped this big SUV into the parking lot.  If I would have had on a wig, it would have been on the floor!  Whew, the brother was hot at me and I was starting to get a little tired of his attitude, so I asked, “why are you yelling?”  You know that didn’t go well….

We park, go into the theater, take our seats and he asked if I wanted something to drink.  I immediately say yes, so we can spend a few minutes away from each other to gather ourselves.  I didn’t want this to be an evening where everyone in the room is arm in arm, hand in hand and you can put a train in between us.  He comes back, sits and I try to start a conversation.  He tells me he’s fine, and told me to enjoy the show.  That means he still mad…really?  I was proud of myself, I left him alone and was ready to groove with Will Downing and when he came out, my attention was focused on him.  My husband got himself together, went and got us another drink and enjoyed the concert.  Don’t you just hate to get worked up about something, then have something happen to disappoint you?   Don’t worry, I had a ball!   Enjoy this video by Will, so smooth…

 



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My Third Child….My Husband

Disclaimer….I love my husband very much.

 

My husband is a hard working man, give you the shirt off his back, his last dime, and will help anyone in need.  He isn’t feeling good right now, he has a horrible skin rash/allergies.  He gets it every year, but for some reason this year it is bad.  Of course, he is uncomfortable and scratching, complaining and whining.  I can usually handle it, but he really needs to go to the doctor.  He will not let me put the ointment on him, but he did say if he doesn’t feel better he was going to the doctor.  I can tell it’s internal and he needs a prescription.  

Have you noticed this is the only time you get to see your husband/significant other vulnerable?  I guess when they get sick, they can’t be the tough man that the world see.  Who else can they be vulnerable with if not with us?  Who else to drive you completely crazy?  I don’t think the kids get like this when they are sick, you diagnose the problem, take them to see the pediatrician if needed, get their medicine and they get better.  Your husband??  Rearrange your schedule, a sick husband will change all plans.  I don’t know about your husband but he will not let me help him.   The whining is so bad, that I have to get out the cheese because that whine needs something to go with it.  I only had sliced cheese, but you get it….

Wine & cheese……                                         Retired tough military guy……

 

I know he’s uncomfortable,  he’s not sleeping well and his skin looks horrible.  I’m gonna make an appointment for him this morning, and have to probably just tell him we are going to breakfast on his day off and just show up at the doctor’s office.  Just another day in my life and keeping my sanity.  Pray for me please!  Please tell me I’m not alone with this, he would DIE if he knew I was telling this…oh well.  Have a great week!

 

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Happy Father’s Day

 

My handsome husband

What do you all have planned for your husbands and dad’s this weekend?  I am taking my husband to see The Dramatics, an old school group from the 70′s.  They  were a group that crooned good old love songs and a few dance tunes, but were known mainly for their grooving slow dance songs.  We have a good collection of their music, they are one of his favorites along with The Stylistics and The Delfonics and a few others.  I got “special VIP” tickets and a reserved table.  I also got him some cologne, dress socks and underwear.  That is exactly what he wanted and I was happy to oblige, because he is a good father to our girls, just stepped in and did what a dad should do and I love and appreciate him for that.  He doesn’t ask for much, so I wanted this to be a special day for him.  

 

I was a daddy’s girl.  I used to believe my daddy could do anything…really.  He was a mechanic for TWA and retired from the Navy, and I thought he could fix anything.  He was in my 8 year old mind, “the smartest, most handsome man in the whole world!”   I could reason with him, he would talk to us and hear what we had to say even though he didn’t agree with us.  I told everyone that, I think I got on my mom’s nerves with it because as I got older she used to tell me I thought the world of my daddy and I did.  I remember when we had to take the keys to his car about a year before he passed away, he wasn’t happy with us, but it was dangerous to continue to let him drive.  Even though he was older when I had my girls, he still was the best grandpa to them, having grandpa moments and letting them crawl up on him.

My beautiful parents

 

I was telling my husband how blessed I was to have my father in my life.   I was listening to “Dance With My Father” by Luther Vandross and it made me break down.   It broke my heart when he died, I lost the first man in my life.  I love you daddy, the girls are so big now and I have a husband that I know would sit down and have those long conversations with you about nothing.  This is the only picture that I could find at this time, I have plenty of pictures.  I can’t wait to find all my pictures for my blog!    Happy Father’s Day to all great,  wonderful dads!

 



 

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