Business As Usual

Monday morning and I have plenty to do today….IEP meeting for my daughter, go to the school district to take two utilities, even though I brought them the deed to the house to prove residency.   They have strict residency requirements, but here’s the crazy part, I completed all the paperwork including my new name, my husbands information and when he went into the parent portal, they still have my old last name and work information.  They didn’t list his job at all, and that didn’t make him happy.  He said he was calling the district today, he does not want them to think he’s unemployed.  Lawd, let me get to them before he does.  

I went to see Sparkle with some friends Friday and didn’t take one picture, I’m slipping.  I thought the movie was good, Whitney Houston did a good job of playing the strict, bible thumping mother of three daughters.  Jordan Sparks is very talented, she has beautiful range with her voice.  I saw her in concert four years ago when she opened for Alicia Keys, and to be honest with you I can’t remember her performance.  But do you know who did wonderful in the movie….Mike Epps!  He played the part of a flashy comedian who stole Sparkle’s sister from her boyfriend by flashing a diamond ring in her face!   It was funny, me and one of my friends sang during the whole movie.  I’m gonna take the girls to see the movie, I like to use movies and situations on TV as teachable moments for them.  

I stayed home all weekend except to take my husband to and from work.  I’ve got to get busy though, we need to find a church home.  We decided together to find a new church home, he said he just didn’t feel comfortable at my old church and I can respect that and agreed.  It’s our goal to attend church as a family, worship together and that means attending a church that we both feel that we can accomplish three things, learn the word, hear the word and a place to worship.  

My hair is graying faster as each day goes by, I had set a goal of no chemicals for one year.  I’m currently researching adding henna to my hair, and searching for a salon that specializes in natural hair care.  Actually I may contact my hair stylist I used, I believe she can do my hair.  We’ll see, but I definitely need to cover some of this gray.  You really can’t see it in this picture, but it’s coming in more.  I took this picture about a month ago.  Gray hair has a mind of it’s own, a little harder to manipulate, but I can still control it with Eco Styler Gel, love that stuff.

 

When I was packing for the move, either me or the girls gave away my Nike’s.  I want to start walking again now that I’m settled.  I bought these, and I figured one thing out, Nike’s are too narrow for me.  These are K-Swiss and are very comfortable.  My knees were killing me when I finished walking and that was because my darn shoes were too tight!  I can and will start my walks again, thank goodness.  I have been very relaxed (lazy) when it comes to diet and exercise and now that everything is back to normal I will get my schedule together.

 

How was everyone’s weekend?  Anything special coming up for the holiday this weekend?  We’ll be home, taking it easy, chillin.   Have a great day, and encourage someone today.

 

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Hair Mayhem

I took my braids down the other day, it was time.  I got my last relaxer on October 20, 2011.  I’ve been going strong, being patient and allowing my relaxer to grow out.  Transitioning is a long process and some women give in and others stick to it.  Well, back to the story….after taking down the braids, I shampoo, condition and started to comb out my hair. It was very tangled and I knew I would lose some hair during the comb out process, it had been braided for a month.  Here’s where it gets “hairy”, sorry couldn’t help it.  While combing, I pulled out 95% of the middle section!  I panicked and out of frustration cut it all off, I’m talking went Angela Bassett from “Waiting to Exhale” where she grabbed the scissors and started cutting, until all the relaxed hair was gone.  

When the fog cleared and my panic attack was over, I had cut all my hair off.  I gotta tell ya, I didn’t like what I was looking at.  I was an emotional, exhausted mess.  I tried to tell the Mr. and trust me he wasn’t supportive.  That’s ok.  I picked up my pride and went to my room and put a scarf on it to keep the funny looks and disappointing comments from my family.  I had to wait until Tuesday to go see the barber who was very supportive and hooked me up with a nice style to fit my face and shape of my head.  Thank you Jeff, of Mister Jeff’s in University City (St Louis) for taking care of me!  Love the way it looks and when I add the moisturizer and oils, my little coils pop right up!  It’s amazing!  

I got through this knee jerk reaction, but gotta be careful about that because it can cost me.  Could be emotional, financial or physical…who knows.  Whew, gotta hold on, that was a menopause moment!  Keep ya head up ladies!

Whitney

 



 

 

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My Hair Story

I decided a few months ago that I wanted to grow out my chemically relaxed tresses. I didn’t want to do the “big chop”, I’m trying to wait on that, at least until my birthday in July.  I’ve worn my hair natural several times before and loved it, but gave into the pressure of people and their opinions of my hair.  When I think about it, how sad to give into the pressures of what someone else thinks of you and what you are about.  So not me anymore.

It’s a long process, but I am so excited about the outcome of my natural hair.  I have to admit, I’ve been on the internet fiercely researching natural hair, how to take care of it.  I have joined a few social networks that are supportive of natural hair.  It’s so much out there, not like it was the last time I wore my hair natural over 10 years ago.  The last time I wore my hair natural was 2002, the year I turned 40.  Well, I will be entering a new decade in July and this time when my hair grows out and I do the “big chop”, I plan to keep it that way.  

Things are a lot different now, I’m going through menopause and it has affected everything physically including my hair.  My hair has started to shed, the relaxer is just too strong.  My hair is super thin.  I am considering using protective styles but not sure where to start with that.  I’m not really a braid person and I don’t really do wigs, so I’m not sure what to do.  I need something because I’m getting ready to start Zumba and Electric Slide classes again and you know what exercising does to our hair.  The pictures below are examples of what I’m considering as my protective styles.  I’m considering the shape of my face and age.  I try to stay age appropriate with my style.  I’m excited about this transition, let me know if any of you are going natural or considering the transition.  I’ll post a picture after I get my protective style done.  Be encouraged…

Whitney

 

Here’s one of my favorite old school slow jams….you all know how I love my music.

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